Lived Experience Forum

[CheerBear]

Totally sucks @outlander  🙁 You're doing the best you can with what you have (I try and tell myself that one which doesn't always help, but points for trying at least). 

Hugs xx

[outlander]

Thanks @CheerBear doesn't seem like I'm doing enough.
I got in trouble a bit earlier cause I don't communicate enough with people but every time I try to tell them something the convo gets shut down and then their info comes from down the vine.

[CheerBear]

That's a lose lose situation for you right there @outlander 😏 How frustrating. It would be very hard to have all of the pressures you do from all of the directions they come.

[outlander]

Gotta love the lose lose situations hey :face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes:🤨🤨 @CheerBear

[Flying_Hams]

Just had a quick read through of your posts @outlander

Sorry to hear the rough situation you are in atm. I am happy to see that you are still around on the forums with us though 🙂

[outlander]

Thanks @Flying_Hams

[Appleblossom]

Hugs @outlander 

Your needs need to be met ... no question.  

Sorry your family is not able to come to the party better .... ahem ... cough cough.

It does not surprise me that the one who volunteered is a woman and probably has her hands full anyway.

I am not sure if reading about dimensions of personality would be helpful, in managing how much to take on yourself.  It might help you manage other people's shortcomings ... or when they tell you off unfairly.  It always hurts, but sometimes we take it in more, so learning not let that stuff unsettle us .... boy I still have a lot to learn with that one.lol

Also sometimes people function better than we realise in our absence.

Def love having you on the forum.

https://www.verywellmind.com/the-big-five-personality-dimensions-2795422

[outlander]

Hi @Appleblossom thank you for your words of wisdom.
As sad as it is I am mostly use to being in trouble for basically anything. It can be hard to take but I'm learning to brush it off more now.
❤

[Appleblossom]

@outlander 

[outlander]

Hope your going ok? @Appleblossom