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20-07-2025 07:46 PM
Thanks @Zoe7 I appreciate you sharing a bit of your story. I actually find people very interesting and how they negotiate challenges is of course quite interesting as I may find some gems in there for myself.
Quick bit of background I have not had much MH support, despite being a survivor of childhood sexual, physical, psycholgical abuse and torture.
First time was age 30yo when I realised I was never going to have children. That was for a couple of years.
Then nothing for a few years until main perpetrator died again maybe a year and then 20 something years later when I got my first cancer in 2022.
I had 8 psycho-oncology appointments for getting through cancer treatment as it replicated some of abuse.
When I was discharged even though I was referred to a private psychologist there was a wait time, so I applied for Guided recovery because it was available for my postcode (a requirement back then).
That cousellor was really great.
Then I had private psych for a while until I got cancer again and was referred back to psycho-oncology. Then referred to different private psych.
20-07-2025 07:51 PM
21-07-2025 05:37 PM
21-07-2025 06:45 PM
21-07-2025 06:45 PM
Good evening @Till23, my heart is with you tonight - I see how heavily this is all weighing on you and I want you to know it's perfectly valid. All of this is a lot to go through and experiencing a lot of triggers at once truly does flood the nervous system. I can only imagine how heightened thigs must be feeling...
What can I do to be there for you right now? 💛
21-07-2025 09:21 PM
21-07-2025 09:21 PM
Hey @Till23 ,
I'm passing by and wanted to check in with you. Please feel free to tag me when you are ready.
We really appreciate you and all that you do and have to contribute.
Hugs.
22-07-2025 05:33 AM
24-07-2025 07:39 PM - edited 24-07-2025 07:47 PM
24-07-2025 07:39 PM - edited 24-07-2025 07:47 PM
Hi @Shaz51 @MissinTooth @MJG017 @Zoe7 I have had a bit of an incident/accident so haven't been around to answer your tags sorry.
I am going to be ok.
I won't be on forums for a while.
I hope you are all well
All the best Till23
24-07-2025 07:57 PM
24-07-2025 07:57 PM
24-07-2025 08:27 PM
25-07-2025 10:49 AM
25-07-2025 10:49 AM
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