im back..... i think

[Anony18]

Oh what happened @outlander??? 

[outlander]

@Anony18

You know those two girls that were being cows to me and how they turned on me and thr fb incident and then one of them trying to get information
The girl that turned on me first that was best friends for years her mum is ine of my mums long time friends and also one of her work bosesses
After my massage i decided to go to see my horses as they adent usually there at this time and low and behold they are both riding their own horses when i rock up they start laughing really loudly over pretty much nothing and then they kept looking over at me while i was there before i even got my horse in. And then they get off and my ex friend who i offerred to ride her horse for her etc etc gets her other friend on her horse the new one shes calling her bestie and starts riding and laughing really loud and kept looking over at me at this point i was gettinf my horse in thankfully it was an easy get in as it usually take me ages as there's heaps of other horses in the group and they always try to run through the gate and i was feeding and brushing her as they came walking over and snarking at me so i turned around at told them to grow the f#$k up and then it turned into an argument thay almost turned into bit more than yelling but lucky for them i managed my anger
I put my horse out slammed the door of my car and i heard them say oooooh as i was driving off it took great will power to not stop the car and go back

Im hoping it doesnt affect my mums friendship or her work either

[Anony18]

@outlander - if you don't mind me saying but those girls sound childish. You were right to tell them to grow the f*&% up! We are not in high school any longer with the whispering and the mind games. I hope you are coping ok though but good on you for standing up for yourself. I am sure if your mum's friend was a true friend, she would not let this all impact their friendship. And to be honest, if it has to be your Mum and her friend may start enquiring what is the real reason you both don't talk and who knows try to resolve this all. 

[outlander]

Ive been trying to do the ignore them and it wont ignite the fire and eventually they will get bored and stop but its getting harder to do. And i was by myself which made it harder too where if i have my sisters or anything there its easier to keep myaelf busy with them and not pay attention to them but when im on my own its harder to do. I try to avoid the times they are mostly there as well .i deleted them off fb and i dont contact them either @Anony18

[Anony18]

It sounds like you have taken and are trying take additional steps to ignore and rid them off your life @outlander. You don't need people who are only going to bring you down. Hopefully with time it will get easier. It is always hard to ignore or move on when they are physically around as well. 

[outlander]

It has been suggested i try role modelling i could try that to remain polite and give myself the challange as well..... but ive been trying that i always say hi and bye as im coming or going buts it didnt seem to help me and mow i dont know how the next interaction is going to go

[outlander]

Above msg @Anony18

[Anony18]

Role modelling, even with a person who does not suffer from MI, can be really difficult @outlander. All you can do is try to make a conscientious effort if you want to. Just be polite and if say hi and bye and if they want to act like children and ignore you then it is all on them. You are trying. I know it is much easier said than done. Try your best not to think of what the next interaction is going to be like. Unfortunately what they say and do is out of your control, all you can control is what you will do and how you will react.   

[outlander]

feeling very cranky

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[outlander]

just need to rant:
why is it that my mother gets the credit for everything i do!!! geezus! i flog my guts out every single day all day every day and she spends one day home and does the house work and she gets all the credit!!! seriously!!!!
and then she gets the craps that no one helps aorund the house and shes not going to keep cleaning the house up all the friggin time unless we start to help by jsut doing the simple things like putting out washign on the washing pile or putting dishes into the sink!!
umm  excuse me!!!!!!!! take a look around seriously,
i never ever ask for anything nor for any recognition for the things i do but when that happens it gets under my skin. it really does.
wow she got up and did 3 loads of washing, the dishes and dinner wholy friggin shite!!!