Sunday night

[john74]

Hi ll am feeling totally overwhelmed atm

 I share a house with a young couple whom argue regularly and are rude and don't speak to me. I have been through a dv marriage which ended 2 years ago l was abused etc for years by my ex wife.Then l got a tirade off the male house mate yesterday. It just bought back all of the bad stuff from the past.plus now l have financial stress until l find another tennant which too months last time. Still having trouble finding work and stress about upcoming surgery.  

[Shaz51]

Sorry @john74 

Sitting with you my friend 

@Jynx , @AuntGlow 

[Bossj01]

Sorry to hear mate. Call open arms if need and hopefully you are getting veteran and ip payments

[john74]

@Shaz51 Thanks l am also concerned the neighbours will complain my agent as the yelling etc can be heard outside. 

[john74]

@Appleblossom I am.advertising on flatmates etc . I can even hear it when l am in bed they argue in their bedroom then get up and start slamming doors etc sometimes at 2 am. Because of what l am going through l need to be in a calm, relaxed atmosphere not a war zone  

[Appleblossom]

@john74hearing you.

sending images for calm 

[john74]

@Appleblosom Thanks they were at it again last night

[Appleblossom]

@john74 

Not sure what to suggest. Whether it’s better to get up and posture, and suggest they go outside and keep the noise pollution down. I get that you don’t want them to turn on you, in the heat of the moment. 

I have generally put up with stuff, but I don’t know if it’s always the right thing.  Sorry, not much help.